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Monday, March 19, 2018

Mom's B-Day

Gavin and Shipton helping me put the demo boxes together.  It has been about a 6 months process start to finish, but we were given the go-ahead to assemble care packages for the women in our stake battling betrayal trauma from a spouse's sexual infidelity! Each item was clearly meant to be included (check out Mark's video HERE to see what they are like). I was expecting a request for maybe 20, but the bishops asked for 60 (so we did 70 to have a 10-box-buffer). My family could help me do a few of these, but 70!?! I quickly realized this was bigger than us, which is how it should be. As I considered possible dates, I realized my B-Day was coming...I cannot think of a better way to celebrate my life than by making others' lives brighter! With amazing connections that were truly God sent, everything arrived on time. As we made our final preparations for these, it has been a beautiful experience for me. There is healing in paying it forward, making the path smoother and clearer for others, and pointing others to Christ. It doesn't change what happened, but at the same time, it softens the experiences from the past and allows even more love into my own heart. I believe one reason we go through difficulty is that God can use us to reach His other children; we would be unable to do so without our experiences.

Sennika helping to carefully measure, cut, and heat seal-the ribbon. The care packages came together with our entire family working together on the prep work. I appreciate their love, support, and interest. I didn't remember to take a single picture or movie clip of my "B-Day party" (our care package assembly party), but it was incredible. It gave me goose bumps seeing all of the beautiful boxes lined up against the wall, knowing they represent women who will hopefully have a smoother healing process because of our efforts. I cannot fully articulate what it meant to me that night. As my life was completely shattered, I was alone and had no idea where to turn. We had already been working with therapists for about 6 months previously and things had only gotten worse. I felt like I was the only one in my situation and I had no idea where to start, let alone what to do. But to have an entire roomful of people coming together to support these packages plus easily double that who couldn't be in two places at once, did something to my heart. People care! They really do! These people were there because they care about me...but they also care about women facing betrayal trauma. I have no idea what the chances are that any of the women who receive one of these packages will see this post, but if they do, I want them to know that they are so loved. Complete strangers love you. Your friends, family, and leaders love you. God loves you. You are known, even in moments of darkness, despair, and darkness. I am kicking myself that I didn't film it for you so you could experience that, but know that you aren't alone!
A woman in my self-reliance group made me a birthday basket. It was so thoughtful!

Mark scheduled my B-day off, which was a nice surprise. We snuck away for lunch together.

My beautiful roses aren't as fresh today as they were when Mark gave them to me, but their fragrance has filled the house.
It was a wonderful celebration surrounded by those who love me. I appreciate family and friends who couldn't be with me in person, but still reached out on my special day.

Thursday, December 7, 2017

Lego Tee Tutorial


Earlier this year Mark's parents took us on an epic week-long adventure to California.  We hit Disney land for a few days as well as Lego Land.  Growing up with my big family and especially 4 rowdy, little boys on the end, my mom always dressed the boys in matching shirts when we went on trips.  We traveled a lot; being a big family didn't keep us from getting out and going places.  I will admit that hitting such people-populated places with four young children of my own made me a bit jittery.  I shared my mom's solution of matching tees with Mark and added my own version of it.  I planned to purchase matching obnoxious brightly-colored tees for the kids so they were easier to keep track of.  "Why not make the adults easier to keep track of too," Mark asked.  PERFECT!  So, I rolled out these fun tees!  It wasn't as fun towards the end because I made 6 days worth for 8 people! :p  It was well worth the time and effort in the end.

I wasn't finding what I wanted for the Lego Land tees, so I came up with my own by splicing a few things together. I am not super crafty...if I can make these, I promise anybody else can too!  You don't have to be headed to Lego Land to surprise your little boy (or your really big boy AKA Lego-loving hubby) :) with this fun tee...


Let me explain how I made these and then check out the very bottom of this post for some face options to mix and match.

1. Gather the following supplies:
~Blank yellow tee(s).  I purchased mine online HERE for both kids and adults.  The smallest size for kids is 4/5T though (FYI, hence the lighter shade of yellow in the picture just above these words).
~Freezer paper:  You can find this in the same aisle where you purchase aluminum foil or plastic wrap. (I paid about $6 for a giant roll at Walmart.  I have made over 60 tees and still have some on the roll).


~Fabric paint and brush: Black is essiential! Red for girl lips and white if you want white dots for the eyes.
~Iron
~X-acto knife
~Scraps of cardboard

2.  Figure out your design (see the bottom of this post for what we came up with).  I printed them on on regular paper in black and white with my home computer. You can mix and match eyes with lips...the options are endless.  Mark and his parents all wear glasses, so their Lego tees needed glasses too.  Mark had a beard, so his tee does too, etc.  Have fun!

This picture is of me tracing some of our Disney Land tees...just use your imagination. :)


3.  Trace your design.  You will notice that there are two textures to the freezer paper.  One size is plastic-y.  This is the side you want closest to your fabric because it will melt while you iron and hold firm to the tee to create a stencil.  The other side is just like butcher paper.  The paper side is where you will draw your tracing.
Instead of Mickey ears you will have Lego faces.  If you are doing more than one at once, be sure to leave space between the design.  You want to cover a good area around your design to prevent dripping fabric paint on undesired places on the tee!


4.  Cut out your design.  I used my X-acto knife to start a hole around the outline of the Lego head and then my scissors to cut the rest, so it was faster.  The key to remember while cutting is anything on the tee that is covered in freezer paper will remain yellow.
Note that I taped the little rectangle on the side (see it on the right upper corner of the biggest piece?). You will need to save this or else you won't have a proper Lego shape.  It gives it the little bump at the top of the head.



So after I cut with the scissors, I was left with 3 pieces to keep at this point: the outline piece, the tiny rectangle, (see the previous picture for both), and the face.  I want the face to stay yellow, so I need to use my knife to cut out the details of the eyes and mouth.

If you are doing girl lips, this is as far as you want to cut at this point.


Then go back, but notice how I'm not starting right at the corner to finish these.  Do that x 4 corners.  I am going to paint the black first and I want a nice clean edge for the black smile line.  If I loosen up the part that I will paint red then I can just cut/tear the rest of the freezer paper off once the black is dry to have the proper shape for the red.

Again, end just before the corner.  (Don't go all the way to the edge of the traced line).

If you are adding either glasses or sun glasses, you will have extra pieces.  See how it splits the face piece in half?  If you have glasses, you will also need to save the outlines inside to make eyes (again, remember anything covered in freezer paper will stay yellow, so if you want to have eyes inside of the glasses, you will need to trace and save those pieces).



5.  Tuck a flat piece of cardboard into your tee. This is important because it will prevent paint from seeping through the back side of your tee.

Position the outline on your tee at the desired place.  I found it easiest to start with the outline of the head.


6.  Start ironing!  Turn it on a high-heat setting and press down hard.  You want to iron like it's nobody's business, paying particular attention to any edges or unusual shapes.  Any freezer paper that is not fully ironed down will allow paint to seep through.  The trick to sharp edges is ironing carefully and entirely.

Second, I ironed on the little rectangle.  This way I can line it up where it needs to go before I add in the face.

I found it best to line up the two face pieces for tees with glasses first, but to only iron on one at a time.



For tees without glasses then go ahead and iron on the face piece.


This tee is all ironed.


7.  Start painting.  All black tees are a piece of cake.  I found sponging it on looked better because the fabric saturated easier.

This is how the tees with girl lips looks after the black paint.

Once the black paint is all dried, I used my X-acto knife to peel off the freezer paper for the red lips part.


Use the tip of the fabric paint bottle to paint the red.

All painted!

8.  Once the paint is all dried, then go ahead and peel off the freezer paper.





Wait at least 24 hours before wearing the tees to allow them enough time to fully dry.



With a houseful of Lego lovers, these tees have been some of our favorites.  Gavin wore it for days in a row after we got home from our trip, but as soon as it was out of the dryer, it was back on him. :)
Happy tee-ing!  See below for prints outs of Lego face options.  I printed each one out on a full sheet of paper. I used the same size of faces for the kids (my youngest was almost 3).  I did print a smaller resized version for the toddler tee I made for another family though.  Have fun!  I would love to hear how yours turn out!















Monday, September 5, 2016

Staying on top of pictures this time!

After the last picture dump, it has motivated me to take more pictures and to stay more on top of them, so it isn't such a chore to upload them.  These are just from the past two weeks!!!!

Le's friend party with earth worm theme.  These were supposed to load on the bottom of the post.  I am too lazy to shift things around. :)



More party.  Playing wiggle worm.





Comparing "worms" of yarn from the relay.


We started our school year last week!  This is the latest we have ever started (we usually start in July).  I forgot how wonderful a routine is for our day.  The kids play better because their day isn't quite as wide open.  Leland doing his math.

Gavin working on his handwriting.

Shipton with his squishy cheeks!

Sennika working on math.

The boys playing mega blocks all together.  This year I have tried something different and so far, so good.  We do it in "stations" style.  1. time with mom for school 2. keeping track of Shipton 3. free time.  Each of the 3 oldest rotate through.

Just look at him!  Such a doll!  He looks like a preschooler here.

My cousin was generous to allow us to borrow this bed.  Since the cruise he hasn't stayed in his bed most nights.  He wants to fall asleep in our bed (he had a toddler bed) and we have had difficulty even transferring him to his own bed.  This twin bed has enough space with a parent to lay be him PLUS it is such a cool bed.  He loves to do "cannon balls" off it.



Sorry it's sideways, but Gavin deeply engaged in Lego creations.

SEE!  It fits Daddy too!

She looked so pretty all dolled up, but wouldn't smile "normal..."  WHATEVER pretty girl! :)


Shipton playing board games.  One of our favorite ways to pass the time on our LOOOOONG Sabbath mornings (church starts at 1:45) is to play board games.

Gavin and Senn playing dictionary

More "cannon balls" of his bed.
Sennika not cooperating for a posed picture.  Well, I will take it anyway! :)

Mom pushing Sennika.

Mom swinging with Shipton and Senn.

Leland driving "the pirate ship" at the park.

Dad with Gavin

Shipton, Dad, and Gavin

We went to temple square for Labor Day.  Mom and the kids in the Joseph Smith Memorial building.

Dad with the kids (plus a few other people in the background)

Dad and kids.

Senn and Mom selife

Gavin and Senn in the Church History museum

Gavin and Le

Mom and Shipton doing superman rides

Dad and Ship

OH, I love to see bookworms...we start 'em young at our house! :)

Shipton picking strawberries from G&G Willis's garden.  I LOVED all 3 of these pictures.

"smiling" :D  We took a quick trip up to Idaho.  Mark helped run some training for their sister company.  We spent our first night at some dear, dear friends from our last Rexburg ward.  We had such a nice visit!  I was also able to sneak in a visit with my bestie while Mark took the kids, which was refreshing as always.  We planned to camp, but forgot how much colder ID is than our balmy northern UT, so bagged our plans with the cold and the wind.  We slept at Mark's parents' house and enjoyed their toys and doing some things around the house and yard.

More park fun.  Shipton carrying around his sandwich.  Le and Mom in the background.

Gavin on the monkey bars.
This is from Le's friend party.  He had planned for months to have a worm party.  Making worm tracks by finger painting with yarn.


This was a combination of awesome and disgusting.  We sliced hot dogs in quarters and after boiling them, they naturally curled like this.


Instead of a cake he requested dirt cups.

Leland with a picture he drew.

Headed to ID.

We stopped at A&W around the halfway mark for root beer floats.  It was a much better price to buy larges and share.

Here is my favorite of the strawberry pictures.  Such a sweet, sweet smile! :)

Sennika planned a puppet show for the boys.

It's the beginnings of fall in ID!  We were shocked!

Shipton

This was crazy!  There was a big, juicy grasshopper on the table when we were waiting for snow cones.  A few of the kids got up their guts to touch it.  Unexpectedly to all of us see below what happened...

It jumped on Gavin's nose!

Senn and Le caring for snails.

More party.
Le's party favors.

We hung a worm from the ceiling.

worm balloons! :) 

Le with his friend checking out the live bait we bought for observation for the party.